Your breaking point!!!

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Our success may not be dependent on good looks, talent, or the friends we have but by determining out breaking point. If we are the type of person that “freaks out” over every little issue no one will want to deal with us but on the other hand if we are too calm others might push us a bit too far.  Therefore breaking points must be measured whether it be in our social, business or even personal life (ex waiting in line) but how to determine when it’s best to have a controlled explosion and when to walk away that is the question. Here are some factors that might be helpful.

(1) Will this explosion gain you respect from those that are annoying you or will they think you’re insane?

(2) Have you blown up recently or would this be a one time occurrence?

(3) Can you control your explosion or could it result in more damage then it’s worth?

(4) What is the best case scenario and what is the worst case scenario how likely is one to occur verse the other?

(5) Do you have another opportunity that is similar to the one you have if your explosion leads to dismissal or will you be out of a job/relationship etc?

Dogs humanize us

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dog and child

 

In a daily routine we can become cynical of those around us  but dogs can bring us back to the basics.  Whether it is a tough day at the office or school, dogs have a way to make us smile when we were ready to cry. They show us that it’s not the fancy cars and clothes that are important but the love we share with each other.  Their loyal when others have walked away and stay with us during the most difficult times. Dogs never get embarrassed of how we act a matter of fact they enjoy us most when we’re the silliest. Dogs humanize us so that truly understand unconditional love and friendship.

Biggest Political Upset – You have been bratized

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DAVID BRAT  BALOONS

 

This is the biggest political upset since a bunch of patriots fought and defeated the greatest military in their times. This upset can be compared to the 1969 World Series or the 1980’s Miracle on Ice. David Brat with almost no name recognition and monies has defeated the 2nd most powerful man in the House of Representatives. It doesn’t matter whether you would have voted for him or not but what matters is David can still beat Goliath today.

Please note I’m so taken by this upset that I’ve neglected other work just to post this blog.  What this means is that your vote still counts no matter what the political consultants and experts might say and that it really takes that fat lady to sing before a defeat can be handed to you. This sends a shiver down ever political incumbent this year that your job is in jeopardy so you better listen to your employees. No politician can now think of their job as a lifetime career but a position they must earn at the ballot box every year.

CUOMO BE WARNED.

Cuomo is vulnerable

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rob astorino

 

Cuomo is vulnerable no matter what the media and political pundits might say. This is a Governor who is wearing nothing but nobody is allowed to see.   We have a strong opponent  named Rob Astorino that is not only done a superb job as Westchester County Executive but is a great communication with wonderful business skills and is a great family man. Will the race be difficult?  Of course but it is winnable. Here are some strategies I hope the Astorino campaign employs to make him our next governor of this great state.

(1) Clear Innovative Solutions for the common problems NY’s face- (Examples include -Traffic, Energy, lack of good paying jobs, higher taxes, poor educational opportunities for our citizens).

(2) Door to Door- The media can ignore you but if you bring the message to the people door to door it will spread like a wildfire.

(3) Radio Shows- Get on as many radio shows as possible with clear solutions to the problems.

(4) Excite your base- Visit as many Church’s, Shul’s, Gun Clubs, Tea Party groups and other conservative places of strength and invite them to get involved.

(5) Don’t be afraid to challenge the norm and offer bold new plans for the future.

(6) Roll up your sleeves, smile but be ready for the mud that will be thrown your way and laugh it all off.

(7) Finally throw out the political consultants and use those monies to spread your message through out the state.

Hockey anyone?

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rangers

Hockey is a sport that I’ve enjoyed watching when I was a little puppy in L.I. but haven’t looked at again that is until last night.  The puppy part isn’t actually true but it’s been awhile since I actually watched a game. I believe the last game I actually sat through to watch was the Olympic game of the U.S verse Russia.  I couldn’t imagine a better hockey game so why even try to watch another game. It also proved to me that the fighting in the sport could easily be stopped and was sorta miffed that they let it continue.   As time goes on you realize you have less time and therefore you can’t watch every sport. You have to pick and choose and I’ve chosen football because it’s schedule usually works with me and even the commercials are entertaining.

Last night I gave it another look as the NY Rangers battled the LA Kings for the Stanley Cup.  It was as an exciting game as the sport would allow but it was hard to watch continuously  with that little puck going so fast back and forth. I thought I was watching “Pong” (old video game reference) on steroids.  These athletes have incredible talents but unless you see it live I believe it’s easily overlooked.  The constant motion doesn’t lead to the buildup of other sports except as time runs out.  As strange as this might seem I sorta miss the commercial interruptions, that give my mind a moment to get excited again when the action resumes.  To conclude I will stop watch the “Stanley Cup” although it will only be glanced at between my writing, reading and eating.

Drawing a line with no eraser

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draw a line

Eventually it comes down to drawing a line and making sure you’ve hid the eraser. We have to clearly state how far we are willing to be pushed and when it gets to that level make sure that we can push back.  It’s very difficult when we feel pity or empathy with those that lines are drawn but if we are truly going to rectify a situation then we must be strong. Some are stronger then others and as such are willing to lose friends, family for a purpose that they belief is worth it while others continue to waffle away until their is very little left of their pride.  Therefore balance and logic are the key ingredients and when you put down that line make sure it’s made with a permanent marker and not chalk.

Condemnation and faith

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condemnation

Many would expect that those who are more observant would look down and even condemn those that are less observant but that is usually not the case. We can never put ourselves in others shoes so unless they commit a major sin such as murder or rape we can’t condemn their actions and/or less observant behavior. For example one who works hard to pay their payroll feels more obligations to his/her business then someone who studies the Torah. These business owners still have to take time for Hash-m/G-D in their lives but can’t be expected to be as observant as those that don’t have this obligation.

We also don’t know how G-D weighs our individual achievements and observation of faith maybe for some it is expected but for others it’s truly a great mitzvah. To conclude let us all look in the mirror and find our own scratches before we search for those among others.

A tie that’s a win for the people

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chris

When a long term incumbent that has been bringing home the bacon and eggs for years is forced into a runoff the entire American people win.  Chris McDaniel held a slight lead over long term incumbent Thad Cochran in which it’s too close to call and therefor a  runoff  will presumably  have to occur.  What is incredible is that the people knew when they voted for Mr. McDaniel that they personally would not get all the Federal goodies they would get with Thad Cochran and still voted for Chris. The point is the smart people of Mississippi realized that you can’t keep spending monies that you don’t have even if that results in short term pains for them.  It is more important to experience a little pain now then put our children and grandchildren’s future in jeopardy under a mountain of debt. Congrats to Mr. McDaniel who proved honesty is still the best policy.

Jonah Hill- Sorry Tour

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jonah hill

 

#Jonah Hill, #Sorry Tour

As one who was bullied I’m sick and tired of the sorry tour. I knew what it was like to be called names and how they “hurt” but we need to get an extra set of balls and let people say stupid dumb even nasty things without worrying that one word will kill their career.  I’m no Christian (although I hope to play one in a movie) but Jesus said it best” those without sin cast the first sin”.  If you’ve said something hurtful or offensive maybe you should say sorry to those that you’ve hurt or maybe you should just say you’re human.

Mr. Hill I’ve lost respect for your “Sorry Tour” you could have said I was angry and said something stupid and then moved on, but to gravel like you’ve murdered someone is ridiculous and truly offensive to comedians and just plain citizens who don’t have P.R firms working for them.  It is not the actual words that we use that should offend others but the tone, intention,  and action we hope in utilizing those words.  We also should consider someone’s emotional state upon saying some word or two as well.  If we are to gravel every time a word is said then eventually everyone will be afraid to express their point of view and that in the end will hurt us all no matter what race, religion or planet we belong to.

I’m sorry if this blog was offensive to those that were offended by … (oh forget about it)

VA Hospital Solution

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The problem with the Federal Government is it tries to do so many things that it neglects those who keep it’s very existence in tact. It’s time that our Veterans get the benefits that they earned and this can’t be just a campaign slogan but a philosophy edged in stone.  Here are ways that this can occur.

(1) Upon leaving the armed forces veterans receive a special medical card which they can use at any medical facility whether it be private or government-ally owned.   Initially though they will have to stop by the VA hospital to see if they can treat their illness in a timely basis.

(2) Veterans are also given a special number manned by individuals in the private and public sector to deal with any complaints in the service they receive. These complaints are sent directly to the person in charge of Veterans Affairs on a regular basis and quarterly to the President.

(3) To insure that this system can run effectively over time. Those future service men an woman will have to pay a nominal fee for this service when in the armed forces and have a small deductible to utilize these benefits upon leaving the service.

(4) Those Veterans who don’t need this medical service (because they have other plans) will receive some tax credit for not participating in this program.

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