Eventually it comes down to drawing a line and making sure you’ve hid the eraser. We have to clearly state how far we are willing to be pushed and when it gets to that level make sure that we can push back. It’s very difficult when we feel pity or empathy with those that lines are drawn but if we are truly going to rectify a situation then we must be strong. Some are stronger then others and as such are willing to lose friends, family for a purpose that they belief is worth it while others continue to waffle away until their is very little left of their pride. Therefore balance and logic are the key ingredients and when you put down that line make sure it’s made with a permanent marker and not chalk.