It is true strength to get help and weakness to continue to suffer.
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July
14
July
Toxic Relationships-Long Term Effects
There are long term effects on individuals involved in “Toxic Relationships” that can effect these individuals daily life (see below). I should know I’ve been involved in many of these relationships and finally understanding the effects they had on me and others. We all meet individuals who are apt to criticize, complain and or full of sacrasm but when these individuals player a bigger role in our life the effects can be devastating. The toxic relationship maybe hard to escape because these individuals are members of your family, fellow co-workers, or even a loved one.
LONG TERM EFFECTS
(1) Shyness- Being afraid to speak up because others will “attack you”
(2) Insecurity- Unwilling to try something new or even escape from this relationship because you are unworthy.
(3) “Horn Effect” Even when you feel you’ve recovered from this insecurity you live in constant fear that you’ll say or do something that will automatically turn a positive relationship negative. That others will find this “horn” and turn against you.
(4) Become the Toxic Monster. Like a vampire the more time you spend with a toxic person the more they influence you and the more negative you become.
SOLUTION
Make sure you double the time spent with positive people then the toxic ones and utilize their upbeat attitude to prove that you are an incredible wonderful person. You soon will realize that it is the toxic person that has the problem, you might feel sorry for them but that it is up to them to change themselves not make them change you. A few locations to meet these positive people are your local religious institutions, charitable organizations, and/or mental health groups.
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July
Free Market vs Socialist = Solution A-1 Companies
In the past there has always been a battle between those who believe that the greater good will only be pursued when government has more control of our lives vs those who belief that government shouldn’t play any role in the marketplace. We have had swings where government has taken more power and corruption grows with that power grab. We also have had times where actions in the free market have betrayed the public trust. The reason that large government solutions don’t work is because there is no competitive nature to either fix the problem and/or run a solution in an efficient way. The reason a total free marketplace doesn’t work is that greed can lead to mistreatment of the key resources in any enterprise (labor)
The solution instead is an A-1 system. The system gives incentives to those who have are most productive in society and are the closest to the people; to make the difference that society need. Corporate America has that talent to make society truly better and with the right incentives it will do so. Here’s how it would work.
1) A-1 Will be for small and large companies that provide the most resources to society (volunteers, health and dental care programs for workers, retirement packages, exercise packages, charitable programs etc) . Those companies that provide these services will have the following benefits pay no corporate tax rate, special advertising promotions, Prestige, etc.
2) B-1 Will be for small and large companies that provide many resources and their efforts also will be noted. The will have many of the benefits above but will pay a small corporate tax rate. There also will be a C-1 level
The decision on what resources need to be provided for each group (below) will be determined by an equal amount of individuals from both parties and must be approved by 2/3 of the Congress.
11
July
Zimmerman Trial-Conspiracy Theory 2
Could the Federal Government be planning a new “Rodney King” type decision, if Mr. Zimmerman is found not guilty of 2nd degree murder of Trayvon Martin? Would the Federal Government “come to the rescue” by bringing violation of Mr. Martin’s Civil Rights against Mr. Zimmerman? Would this be the perfect way for Mr. Holder to boost his credibility with the liberal elite? Most importantly is this the way Justice should be served? Just a possible conspiracy theory to think about before your morning coffee.
10
July
The best wake up
Better then an alarm clock or cell phone. The only problem if you’re late they’ll leave you a present you’ll want to return.