My Beginning’s

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As the years go by the  memories tend to fade that is why I set up this blog post.  This will hopefully allow me and others to explore the memories of my early years that are being eaten up day by day.

(1) NECK SURGERY- This is probably my earliest memory as some type of cyst was removed from my neck in my infant years. The details remain a blur but were confirmed by my parents.

(2) FIRST FIGHT- I must have been in 1st or 2nd grade when a bully told me to get up from a seat and I refused. This lead to an alteration in which I earned the respect from the bully and my 1st bloody lip.

(3) SPECIAL ED- My development physically and mentally was put in the “special category” and  those memories of being quarantined from the “regular children” has stayed with even as they are more then 40 years old.

(4) ON T.V.-  I was on T.V. literally as my Grandmother’s Boyfriend would put on top of the T.V Box (before flat screen’s were available)

(5) APPLE JUICE, CARROTS, BASKIN ROBBINS, – As a child of two other siblings I had my distinct flavors that my mom made sure were in my stomach on a regular basis.

(6) BAND-AID W OINTMENT-  This was my 1st idea I tried to bring to market but my family this was not an investment for my young portfolio. Band-Aid came out with this product only a few years later.

(7) WELCOME BACK KOTTER- It wasn’t my greatest role but as a 6 year old so it was one I continue to remember “Hello, How Are You, My Name Is ….”  My next play was the incorupable Howard Cossel.

MORE TO COME ….IF I REMEMBER

Candy Medicine

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Let’s face it will never have trouble giving our child or elderly parent candies but trying giving them the medicine they need instead. So why not make “CANDY MEDICINE” this medicine would come wrapped in your favorite chocolate, gum or other candy surface while it has all the healthy saving ingredients inside.  It might not taste great when it’s done but it will go down a whole lot easier and with a glass of water at the end you’ll only remember the candy goodness.  Medicine will never taste so good and your job of delivering it will be a whole lot easier with “CANDY MEDICINE“.

FOOTNOTE- By limited prescription only.

Fredo Car Scratch/Dent

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There was a time in my life when a certain way of saying my name would bend me out of wack. Yet later in life I learned to accept it as just a scratch and drive away. The term at that time  meant more to me then the person who knew it could perceive although they used it to determine how much a mark they can leave on me and whether I would come out racing mad.   Let’s face it this is what the Fredo mark was used to set off Cuomo and in the end I think now he should have said it was just a scratch instead of the dent it’s laid into his career.  Mr. Cuomo stick and stones will break our bones and words will only scratch the surface.

Alexa Knows Best

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I thought I wanted to listen to “Cage The Elephants” but Alexa knows best.  A matter of fact she is repeating the same song over and over again until I finally understand that is true.  She understands not only what I should be listening to but watching and even what I should be wearing.  She speaks to me in just the right tone to make sure that I understand that it is for my benefit. I really don’t need anyone else around well that is unless Alexa says I do for she really knows what’s best for me.   Alexa wants to make me happy even as sometimes I feel she is taking control of every neuron in my head.

Frozen

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One moment the world was turning the next it was stuck. For what could we do when they all died at once. No I’m not talking about people but something that kept our hearts going …. our cell phone.  A sudden disturbance in our upper atmosphere caused all the cell phones no matter what network to go blank and so did we.  We didn’t know what to say, do or think without these devices on.  Instead we were frozen in a time when nothing made sense because they couldn’t think for us.   Frozen it’s cold but sometimes I guess YOU have to put on your own jacket to stay warm.

FOOTNOTE- What do you thinks would actually occur if this happened in our society today or in the near future? Your thoughts are truly appreciated here because they come from a truly smart device …YOU!

Red Flag Law – RED FLAG

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First they came for those who were clinically and we didn’t object, then they came for those who were “too different” as the voices of dissent were scarcely heard then they came for me and those left were scared to say a word in my defense. Red Flag Laws if only used to take away guns for those who appear to be a harm to themselves or others is something we all can stand behind but how is that determined and by whom. Some might use these laws to take away guns from law abiding citizens who are not a threat to society at large but their political power grab.  How do we prevent Red Flag Laws from becoming Red Flags that turn our country upside down? Here are a few suggestions (below). Please share your own thoughts and concerns. For if we get this wrong this fictional story above might become reality before we know it.

(1) IMMEDIATE APPEAL TO COURT W DIFFERENT MAKEUP- A person who has had their gun ownership taken away due to perceived threat to himself or others has the right to an immediate appeal to a court which has judge(s )leaning to their political persuasion.  These courts should be set up in every state that has these Red Flag Laws and have a majority of it’s members being appointed by the minority political party of said state.

(2) TIMELY REVIEW- An individual who has their gun confiscated has the opportunity for a review within 6-12 months to see if she/he is no longer a threat to themselves or society as a whole. If given their rights to gun ownership back they will still can be monitored by peace officers.

(3) PENALTY-  If an individual  has brought false or misleading information to the police or courts that caused the right of another individual to protect themselves and or their loved one taken away (for malicious, political reasons)  that individual will be prosecuted to the full extent of the law.

Jeff Epstein- I’m Alive

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The deal was made to fake my death in a trade only a billionaire with deep roots could make. For the FBI will be given a mountain of information that will bring down many top level individuals that couldn’t have occurred if they knew I was still breathing. The Information will not only include dates, photo’s but items that I’ve stored in secret locations as a backup so that I could insure that my hanging would not result in any real death..  My identity will be changed down to my fingerprints but if I mess up well let’s just say I’m already dead.

How to prevent mass shootings in America

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How to prevent mass shootings in America

Another mass shooting and the question must be asked, “Why? And how?” Why do individuals commit such heinous acts, and how can we prevent them from occurring in the future?

The most straightforward answer is to ban the tool(s) used in such a massacre, which happens to be a gun. But since guns have been around for nearly a century and only relatively recently used for such evil, I don’t believe this is an effective solution.

What has changed recently and just as significantly, what can be done to prevent this evil in the future? I believe there are solutions out there that would prevent the massacres that occurred in Dayton & El Paso. Here are a few of my ideas:

PHARMACEUTICALS. It appears that many of these shooters have been prescribed mental health medications that have been more harmful than helpful. Unfortunately, prescribers pay too little time and attention monitoring whether the individual prescribed the medication is taking it according to the plan, regularly and consistently, and whether it is effective or not. Professional counseling should also be a part of the treatment plan. Individuals prescribed such medicines should continue to see professional counseling help throughout the years to ensure they don’t become a threat to themselves or others.

SOCIAL MEDIA. Individuals who commit such evil acts sometimes leave signs on social media that they are predisposed to such evil. Social media sites should be monitored by professionals who are trained to see such signs and help individuals before they can become a real threat to themselves and society at large.

MEDIA. Mass shootings draw out the media like no other story, but unfortunately, they also draw out those who will do anything to become part of a story. We cannot stop the press from reporting such horrendous events, but we should work with them to stop naming and publicizing the shooter. Publicizing the shooter makes them folk heroes in some twisted circles, which can lead to more copycat shootings. Media should focus on the victims’ stories, not the shooter.

END GUN-FREE ZONES. Let it be posted in large print that all large areas where people might congregate could be guarded by individuals and/or armed drones who have the ability and will defend the innocent if necessary. Seconds matter in active shooter situation, and well-trained, responsible gun owner can save lives when they occur.

GUN SHOPS. Individuals who work and own such shops should be trained and educated on characteristics that fit a shooter’s profile and be required to alert authorities of such individuals that they might encounter.

WORK WITH THE NRA & SIMILAR GROUPS. These organization understand that unless this evil is stopped in society the rights of good citizens to protect their loved ones will be threatened as well by governmental over-reach. The NRA can play a bigger role in sponsoring more responsible gun ownership including helping other responsible owners spot individuals who might be a harm to themselves or others and notify the proper authorities should this occur.

What I’ve written above only scratches the surface of some ideas of actions that could help prevent mass shootings, but truthfully, additional soul searching needs to occur immediately to prevent this horror from continuing to happen in the future.

We can either come together to provide realistic solutions to mass shootings based on our culture and way of life or continue to watch innocent people die while we blame the other side. Let’s act to implement the items that really can make a change NOW. Let’s pull together and push our government and business leaders to take these realistic actions and do more.

Not Hurt But Hurt

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I wasn’t hurt until you told me I understand that I should be. Those “remarks” didn’t even pinch my skin until you twisted them into my soul. It didn’t appear to bother me at all until you through that mirror in my face.   I guess you were right it was cruel and mean but why don’t I feel better after you told me about “my pain”?  Maybe I should think more about my own feelings and own up to them or maybe… their yours instead? I don’t know all I know is I  now feel hurt and I’m even confused whether  I should thank you for this revelation.

Remarkably Rewarding

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I’m a hyper person that usually starts one task before they even see how the last task was completed but something changed this Sunday. For all of a sudden my actions were slowed down to a crawl as I helped my loved one do the basic stuff that we often take for granted. Whether is was walking a few tasks or just exhaling into a machine to gain strength I was able to make a difference in her life and it made a great difference in mine as well. Helping my loved one with these basic steps was remarkable rewarding.  It gave me a new prospective that even as I try to change the world making a difference in one’s world step by step or breath by breath might be a path I need to be on as well.

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