When dealing with someone who does something that you find objectionable for any reason there are ways to make them think about the act or just think angrily about you. “I understand how you feel and empathize with your reason I would just do it a different way,” might be the best way to approach such topics. You can then wait for the other person to respond to your comment or just leave it in the air till the next time you meet. The air can become thick and the person you’re speaking to you might become less defensive allowing you a better chance to have your comments be considered in the serious and concerned note that you bring them to him/her. This is not an easy approach especially when the act the person is involved in truly disturbs you but you must judge whether you want to vent or actually change that behavior or at least put the best foot forward.
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June