I’m a victim and it feels lousy. As I’m told it’s not my fault and I can’t do anything about it. It’s as if my existence is pre-determined so why continue to even try just demand my reparations. Victimhood doesn’t feel so good for me the “victim”. I wonder if I change my tune and say it’s not my fault but my responsibility from now on what would happen instead? Yet, I guess I can’t accept this mindset because I’m just a victim.
FOOTNOTE- Looking at the glass instead of the crack might just help as well.