Whether you’re born with good looks (above) the ability to run fast, sing better, born into a certain business etc. it’s important to utilize those skills to get what you want. To some it might appear unfair that you have such skill or born into some lifestyle but they are the ones only looking out instead of in. Once you’ve determined that asset you have now comes the harder part to find what you want not what society or family/friends wants for you. To find what you truly want requires deep digging as marketing campaigns/societal pressures try to determine that desire every day and family/friend pressure adds layers to those underlying feelings. It is only with time and experience that truly determine what you want but a hint it isn’t just want you want but what you want for others that truly brings happiness.