It is not the experiences that we go through that makes us who we are but how we deal with those experiences that count. For many have had to bare many burdens but come out as a saint and then their are those that let one experience turn them into the devil. The ability to deal with those experiences comes from two major elements in a character faith and self esteem. Understanding that your accomplishments and suffering are put in a place for a higher purpose helps one to deal with both properly. Having the inner confidence to lift your self from a difficult experience is something that can be brought on by both your inner core and your outer contacts. Family and Friends help to build and strengthen these key characteristics in an individual. Therefore even if you don’t have those abilities naturally inside the ones your with can help build them so your wall will not crumble when difficulty arises.