Ask first!

Posted by Bruce - in Blog, personal - No Comments

wow

I’ve never been the type of person that would try to make plans in the last minute and  also felt insecure asking for help, that was until last night. Last night I noticed that my son got a call from a young lady asking him to go to a movie, that was to begin in an hour. In an hour? Forget the thought of a woman calling to ask a man out that was strange enough but what truly was bizarre is that she asked at the last minute.  How many Saturday’s nights did I stay alone in my house as a teen all because I was intimidated that it would look desperate if I called a friend in the last minute. I’d rather suffer the loneliness then feel I was desperate. Wow what a waste of time.

This young lady has inspired me to not only be less intimidated to ask people out for a social engagement but also ask people to get involved as well. I realize  insecurities can make us afraid to engage others and then we suffer as whole. I for one am going to make a greater effort to fight these feelings so that I can not only truly enjoy the company of others but insure that we as as group can exceed the expectations others have of us.

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