Relationship Advise-103- The Fight

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Lose the battles win the sanity.  Don’t worry about having the last word or even the word before just let go of your fight stance as soon as possible.  Say, what you’re going to say and let it drop like a mic it will stick a whole lot longer. There is no way to convince a loved one who is adding from their own calculus so at some point sooner than you like just go to step 101 and find a way to escape this painful reality. Losing the battles not only helps you stay sane but actually helps you to enjoy the other things around you a whole lot more.

FOOTNOTE- Just because you’re willing to give into a battle doesn’t mean one doesn’t state how they feel even if it’s to closed ears.

The Patient

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“The Patient” is your free therapy session and this one is entertaining. The characters are well drawn out to the point you can feel sorry (spoiler alert) for a serial killer just a bit. The storyline keeps you watching episode after episode with cliffhangers that have you holding on.   It’s not the type of show that has non-stop action but that is due to the point that it’s basically shot in one main location.  “The Patient” is worth your trip to the therapist session.

*** –  I added a 1/2 star for the surprising ending.

Relationship Advise 101- For Those Not In A Fairy Tail – Part I- Space

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For those who haven’t lived happily ever after maybe it’s time for some “space”. This isn’t the type where you need to pack a bag but one where you can have your own emotions. Every couple needs not only “space” to do their own activity but space to get out of their own “funk”.  Yes, it’s important to have an empathetic word or two but not enough to drag you down the personal cliffs they need to climb.  Help can be on the way but only in bits and pieces that don’t get you stuck in what appears their quicksand. It’s not easy being in a relationship but space is one way to bring it together.

Orange F-U-N

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“Orange F-U-N” will be the one cuddly toy all your children and those with such a heart will have to put on their shopping list. This cuddly toy will only want to be held and cuddled as if it was a puppy and kitten combined in one. Playing and cuddling is the only mess it will leave behind.  Yet you can let it have rest time by closing its eyes as if it was a switch.  “Orange F-U-N” is this a dream worthy of putting together?

FOOTNOTE- This concept was formulated when I entered slumberland and didn’t want it to escape when I entered this land.

Money Timeline

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My timeline ran out even though there were still monies in the bank. I knew I could have spent monies on exotic herbs/vitamins, health spa and mindfulness training (etc) but I thought I could put that off until I had a bit more now it’s all left behind. Maybe that extra pill or massage would have only added minutes to my life but it probably would have been more enjoyable as a whole and what’s the point of having so much left behind?  In the end, budgeting might appear to be crucial except nobody actually knows the end date and how it might have been expanded with a few more $$’s invested in Y-O-U?

The Trap

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Go ahead grab the king … for now. As we know that things will turn dark in the coming year and will have a brand new game in two years totally stacked in our favor. We will end up with more pieces than you can imagine as the victor will be blamed for what is on the table even though we completed started it in the first place. They will not remember what has occurred today only who is in charge as the next game begins. So chess mate today but be warned this is just the battle we wanted you to win.

FOOTNOTE- Be weary of those who might be letting you win after all.

Political Move

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I allowed the opponent to make the 1st move in the political game without a counter-offensive and in so doing lost a golden opportunity. The truth is when having a political discussion it is key to attack early with your strongest offensive moves this way your opponent will lose focus on the plans they had set for the game. Yet understanding the moves your opponent can make still allows you to set the trap for a win. Once the opponent throws over the board (anger or name calling) you can be declared the winner.  For political discussions are not only about the facts but how the game is to be played.

Rosh Hashanah- In 4 Words

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For those that live in the twitter world. Rosh Hashanah is “I’m sorry pass it on”.   Of course, that sorry must come from the heart, mind, and soul. It must be the type of sorry that attempts to lead someone down a different path that is closer to G-D and must be reciprocal to the world.  In other words, if one wants to be forgiven for their mistakes known and unknown they must be willing to forgive others and move forward. Therefore these 4 words take a whole lot more effort than just saying them in the 1st place. L’Shana Tova may you be inscribed in a year of health, happiness, success, peace and love

CUTE & Annoying

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I’m CUTE and maybe a little annoying. Let’s face it you can’t resist this face even if it won’t stop barking. I have the looks that kill for your stress level goes up a bit more wondering whether you’ll catch me on time or I’ll leave you a little surprise. Yet in the end, though I can annoy you hear or there CUTE is the one you’ll keep.

Confusion

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I’m so confused. I don’t know why you take me out for so many walks and then get mad when I do my business on a different source.  I really don’t understand what you’re saying for your language is very different than bark except that you get mad when I speak too much. I’m just lost as I think you are well at least we both have that in common and also we’re both trying to figure each other out yet are so   confused?

 

 

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