I relax here because I earned it and am proud of that! While others around M-E might refrain from the “earning part,” I truly am thrilled about it!!! Some would rather just get a paycheck, but I want to know each penny (if still made) is earned by doing that extra lifting, even if those around me would rather nap. Don’t get me wrong, I’d love to get some help, yet accomplishing something is usually the reward I truly seek, and I don’t understand why others don’t have this mindset in their mirrors.