Who’s counting and if they were isn’t that pathetic? Does it really matter in the scheme of things which party you were invited to and how many Saturday nights you stayed home? Is it really important that you “missed that” or are you worried it’s on that list instead? What is the difference in your life if you have 5 friends on Facebook or 500 does the addition make your life better or more complicated? Yes, if your a film-maker, paid influencer or someone who’s career depends on how many people are looking that matters but for most of us most of the time I’d take that calculator and just toss it. For, what matters is the additions you add and please don’t forget the one in your mirror who often isn’t counted at all.