There are advantages to a MCW that others who haven’t gone through will never experience. For the moments of peace, kindness and F-U-N are amplified to a level that those with normal experiences could never touch. For example the sense of “kindness” become so powerful that your eyes could see through a blindfold. I don’t wish my experiences on others but if one is going through them then one should look to the positive which might not be as many but are truly beautiful.