We’re close despite our arguments and differences because of one word “shared”. The experiences we’ve gone through together good and bad have allowed us to develop a tough skin that keeps us united even after many a disagreement. We can remember the times when we held each others hand during good and bad times figuratively and emotionally for a lifetime. Shared experiences that might be as simple as enjoying a burger or as difficult as the passing of a loved one are the foundation for our relationship to go forward even if others think we should step back.