The reasons words come out of your mouth is because of either one or a combination of the 3 words hear, hug or help. It is probably the reason we also build things up or tear things down. Many an argument can be traced to whether one wants just to be heard while the other truly needs your help. We often listen to each others words without hearing what they are truly saying. G-D willing our interpretation skills can improve by listening deeper to those words in between the voice as we then can live peace, understanding and happiness.