It’s not what you say but how you say it that moves the needle either way. For example, “Hi”, could follow with an exclamation point, a question mark or a long dramatic pause. Each way will cause a different reaction with the recipient. This can also be a word from a different language or entirely made up. It’s not what you say but the way you say it that can you give an award or a jail sentence. So maybe not only consider what comes out of your mouth but the tone it comes out as well.