The pressure is flowing all around you but you just don’t have too. You can walk on a whole different path then others are walking and it’s not only fine but could be dandy. Yes, this should be based on logic not just rebellion but it’s perfectly to swing to a whole new “Cow Bell”. Everyone is going to “the party” but you’d rather finish that book. The world is watching the “big game” but you’d rather finish writing the “big script”. They might say “you missed it” but if what you do brings a bigger smile you’ve missed nothing. So remember it’s okay to just don’t do it if you truly want to.