You’re either the ignitor, wood or water. One starts everything up the other keeps it burning while the final shuts it all down. In each situation the role can be used for good or evil. There is always the one who starts the great business project or the big fight. One might be the one who enables it to go further or let’s things cool down when things have gotten out of hand. So which one are you not only depends on ones personality but the situations one is drawn into.