I have not passed judgement but to be honest I have pre-judged Y-O-U. I can’t say I didn’t notice what you wore, how you spoke, your background etc, etc for the truth is I’m human and have eyes/ears as well as experiences. Yes, I haven’t slammed down the hammer, but it is in my hands and although one is innocent till proven guilty let’s face it everyone has their own starting spot. This is a “no judgement zone” but that doesn’t mean it’s one that isn’t fraught with just being human.