You can start with faith but also join because it’s a true community. Organized religion has gotten a bums wrap as the focus has been on the strict rules that are “observed” rather then the community it brings together in good as well as difficult times. This is a community that truly cares for each other not based on what one can get from another but by what they can give to each other instead. As someone who experienced “this community” during the passing of my mother I fear that others will not have that warm helpful hand when they need it the most. Organized religion may not appear to be “your thing” for now but trust me you’ll want and need their support someday so join this community for it’s hand’s need to be continued to be felt.