You can’t lead without having animosity next door. For every decision or non-decision is going to be met with those who oppose that action or non action with logical and il-logical reasons. You will have to take sides even as you try to balance your decision, one will still feel as it’s tipped in the other persons favor. Leadership can be lonely especially in-between the moments of success and especially if failure occurs. Yet one must step ahead if others are to walk up the mountain as well. In the end you might make it to the top of your mountain, get stuck on a ledge, or even fall off but at least you’ve tried while others will hate.