This is an obvious truth that I as a rebel have often ignored probably at my own peril. The truth is if you want to have connections with others that will help you succeed you must go where such people congregate. This of course doesn’t mean you will meet the direct connection you need but at least you’ll have more doors open then normal would be on your radar. It also doesn’t mean you have to change your image to fit in for often it is the authentic person in such a crowd that can stand out. For one might find a pearl in the sand but if you are looking in Oysters there is a great selection for the necklace to shine through.