My millennium friend, when a person says you are pretty or attractive it might not be for the intention of a sexual advance but just be a compliment. It is a possibility of course that there is such a desire but just as someone admires a beautiful sunset or a piece of art without any sexual desire it could be the same for you. I guess it’s how it is said which might make you feel uncomfortable. Yet sometimes one looks for intentions that might not even be there. We also don’t want to feel as an object but as a whole person yet a person noticing your natural beauty can also lead them to explore the beauty within as well. Maybe the next time someone says you look beautiful just say “thank you” and if they make you feel uncomfortable tell them your not making them feel that way now.
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March