It’s not who or what but when that makes the flashes start. For if you see the grand premiere 3 months after it comes out nobody will even notice. Buying that newest device after everyone is on a newer device won’t turn many eyes even if the older one is better. Going to that hip place won’t be so hip if it occurs when everyone is leaving. When is what counts if you desire the attention more then the item/service. Yet if you wait for your “when” till many have forgotten you might be able to enjoy it in peace and quiet way longer then those who had to be 1st or 2nd.