What would you do if every time I was up you had to be down or vice versa? Who would you allow to suffer on this see saw of life? Would you be willing to take turns and if so who would be up higher then the other. This could occur with adult activities where it’s good for one’s heart on one side and causes another to “skip a beat”. You never know what life will give you and your loved one so maybe you should plan in advance whether you want to be more generous or think what’s best for you. For love till death due us part may cause one to depart sooner then they had planned.