Don’t ask just do it!! For when you ask you know that someone is going to tilt you to the safe and predictable way so that even if you jump you won’t go with all you have. Don’t get me wrong I don’t think you should go to the cliff but at the same time it is better to live with a scratch or even a break then to die wondering if. Of course having that team behind you to catch you when you do slip might be necessary even it’s just by one hand but don’t count on them all cheering you all the way. Maybe it’s my rebel side but once you complete that jump all of sudden everyone will say they were always behind you.
FOOTNOTE– If this advise is taken for relationship understand that no is the end of this discussion.