I felt dirty even though I didn’t play or go in any mud. It wasn’t that I don’t have my own share of dirt in my life but the crudeness from which this individual spoke to me made me as if I needed a cold shower. Don’t get me wrong friends and loved one’s should be able to share almost anything with each other but we all have lines that make us feel a bit unclean and this one line was muddy. I’m still friends with this individual but will try to avoid stepping in the muddy piles or at least have a nice shower ready after such a discussion.