As I befriended this guy who would have been the standard person to dump my books at high school, I realized I entered my cool phase. A moment where I felt totally cool/rad in my fur/skin around almost anyone . It was moment that took a few years after a high school (maybe a bit more then a few except if you count in Dinosaur Yeats) that I had this feeling surround my entire body and psyche. So far those going through a few awkward years/decades your rad/cool moment can happen in an instant so always be ready with your shades for when it hits you it will brighten your day in an instant.