When your father is Tom Cruise or Tom Brady how can you compete? A matter of fact it’s not only the lifestyles of the rich and famous that are hard for children to compete with but any rags to medium riches as well. For the children of such parents must find their own identity in a world where their parents have stolen the spotlight. It is so difficult for these children to compete in the industry of their own parents that most must find their own identity in a whole different world. These children in someway must be able to say that what they achieve may not be a glorious as their parents but is good in their own right and when they do they can “accept who they are” as well as who their parents are.