Those who appear not to care might care more then we think especially when they lift themselves up to us. For others might do things for us with some of their own motivation the other “lazy” individuals do it totally for us. They really don’t care about what “that looks like” or even smells like that they just want to make you happy or less mad. So the next time you are mad at someone who appears not to care as long as they are sorta acting in your way give them a hug instead, unless they rather take a nap.