Most of us make the wrong decisions when picking out a partner and although it might not initially appear as dramatic as the images above over-time their flaws will look even worse unless we deal with reality. Life is not Cinderella we don’t run off to a happily ever after. Sometimes the most passionate relationships are the easiest to blow out because there base is hot on the outside but ice cold in the inside. Our initial decisions are based on physical and initial emotional attachments which can quickly fade when the first smell of flatulation/body function occurs.
If we don’t deal with reality that our partner is not everything we expected them to be and neither are we to them then you both are headed for a heart break. We made the wrong decision but because we are making the right decision now that “Prince” or “Princess” will suddenly appear if just for the moments that we count. By focusing on the positive acts, deeds and even looks of our partners when we count we will see their inner beauty shining through. When you’re friend or loved one says you have someone special you will see that as well not look through the crowd to see what fish swam by. Life may not work out to be happily ever after but it will be a whole lot happier then the way the story was heading. You make the wrong decision but over-time it just feels right.