I remember walking into a college party and walking out within 5 minutes well at least I was there. It took me years to discover the 5 reasons to hate parties and the 5 reasons solutions to these dilemma’s. What do you think of this list? Please feel free to add or subtract from it.
(1) TOO MANY PEOPLE- There’s just too many people and I’m not sure who to hang out with. SOLUTION- Find the 1 or 2 people that have the same chemistry as you do and pretend it’s just your party.
(2) MUSIC IS NOT THERE- They’ve chosen a sound track from a different lifestyle- SOLUTION- When in Rome listen to Roman music or ask the band or DJ to play a song or 2 in your genre. It also might be great time to get into a sillier conversation with your new friends.
(3) APPEARANCES- The crowd is either to wild or too tame for your interests. SOLUTIONS- It’s time to have peripheral vision and just focus on those individuals who appear to be in your circus or just enjoy watching the acts around you.
(4) JERK- You meant an individual who can be defined by Merriam Webster as a “Jerk”. SOLUTION- Move on to others in the party as if he was not in attendance.
(5) SOMEWHERE ELSE- People are having more fun at a different party and your stuck here. SOLUTION- There are always people having more fun then you are but also many others that have less fun so enjoy this moment.