I spent way too much time trying to be with the “cool crowd” that I didn’t see the “more loyal” friends in front of me. Yes, these individuals might be a bit quirky, nerdy, strange or a combination thereof but they’re also loyal and caring while the cool crowd may only bring ice. They appreciate real friendship based on what’s deeper then the initial appearance and have a unique insight that can be fascinating and yes even sometimes a bit annoying. Even as I write this blog I know that my insecurities will continue to have me search through the ice but now I’ll keep a more open mind to those wonderful nerdy, quirky and/or a bit strange friends that I’ve taken for granted for too long.