How much time do you spend worrying how others react to the same stimuli we experience? We often think that what grabs us or bores us is the same with other people only to find later that they actually enjoyed that ” boring moment” of were pulled away when we were pulled in. It’s hard to understand how something that gives us such emotional highs and lows means so little to someone else. Yet if we can pull away from feeling isolated from that person’s reaction and find out why they feel as they do, then we can truly find that bonding moment we are looking for.