It is the most important job we have as humans to take of each other but sometimes when we give so much we lose ourselves. Of course we should be willing to sacrifice our time, monies and heart to help but we must leave our soul within. Many of us spend most of our time at work, helping our families, then getting involved in a community project only to have a few moments to discover what keeps that inner spark from sparking. Please don’t get me wrong there is a special happiness that can’t be achieved any other way then by giving of oneself yet if we don’t discover ourselves we might not be able to receive the intensity of this emotion. Therefore every once in awhile you need to have some extra me time to discover who you are and what keeps that inner candle burning even when there is know one around you to light the flame.