PROBLEM: Destruction of the Nuclear Family SOLUTION: Promotion and help for that family. State governments should have certificates for consenting adults to have a “formal relationship” with the rights and responsibilities but only religion institutions and/or approved secular organization can declare it a marriage.
These institutions should provide this couple with information on how to deal with difficulties that occur in a marriage, resources to deal with those possible difficulties and the significance of their special relationship. They should also have the resources to provide help for those couples (especially with children) that are having a difficult time. If after the counseling the marriage fails their should be incentives to provide a quick least painful way to a resolution that does the least harm to the children and insures that both parents(whenever possible) play a significant role in their upbringing of the children.
The key to any society starts from the ground up and their is no more significant ground then the strength of a nuclear family.