There are many advantages for the adults who have never grown up to take on their choices and responsibilities. For one thing being led doesn’t require you to make a decision and as such you are not responsible of what action might occur. If the action doesn’t work out you can just complain that if you were in charge everything would have been just fine without lifting up a paw. On the other hand if everything works out well or well enough you can enjoy playing with your toys until the leader decides it’s enough. Adult Children have been around as long as there have been adults and many a dictator at work or in society continues to thrive when freedom is just behind the door. Not every adult is meant to be a leader but ever adult should try to grow up from dependency one paw print at at time.