If you complain and want empathy then be ready for the solutions. If you won’t take the time to listen respectfully to those solutions then your empathy will slowly disappear. The solutions that you find alone will have to work completely or you will have know one to blame except yourself. Even if you implement a token amount of the solutions that one offers it will lesson the blame if things don’t work out and allow you to continue to have some empathy in the future. If one the other hand you can logically convince the others that this policy is best and they take some credit for it’s implementation then they also can take some blame for it’s failure as well. The point is simple if you are to complain to others then you must listen to them as well.