To give a gift anonymously is the only pure generous act. When we openly do something for another individual we expect something in return it might be a simple kind word or smile or it might be reciprocal act in the future. The truth is we all use people and they use us and this even goes along to our four legged friends. Yet a user will continue to expect to get more from the relationship as it grows. They will find a way for you to give until your wallet and bank account are empty or your car is out of gas. A friendship on the other hand will not look for ever act to be rewarded directly but will look to the long term benefits of such a relationship. I believe though that sometimes the simple act of kindness without expectation ends with the greatest reward a cleansed heart and soul.