Sometimes it’s not what, where or how but when that truly matters. As chemistry and previous events can play a bigger role in the impact of your words then one would initially think. If one speaks to an individual when they just happen to be in a flight, fight response from something not exactly working in their system or a previous event you’ll see who gets the black eye (hopefully not literally). Judging the aura around an individual can let you know when to let go and when to actually engage. So remember it’s not always what and how you say it but when that truly counts.