There’s that balance in life to be “cool” without being “cold”. One should try their best to calmly get through every situation that arises, so emotions don’t send them down the wrong path without freezing their relationship with others. That means taking sometime after the crisis has hit to try and understand how others might see things entirely differently. They must be warm to the idea that even if it’s black and white in your mirror others see much gray. Being cool without be cold is a way to make sure you stay on your path but don’t get too distracted along the journey’s.