You don’t want to break everything up but need some type of secret separation then “Sarriage” might be the trick. With “Sarriage” you and you’re former loved one will still have the house kids and dogs but the freedom to move on from the emotional pain that has been bringing you down. Maybe you’re sarriage is on the open side where what happens outside the house stays out while with others it means the freedom just to move on without not actually moving. Sarriage will not work for everyone but for those not sure where there next move should be maybe this is the step you should take.