I have to learn to set boundaries yet due they have to be walls? I guess in the past I might have feared the consequence’s of putting up these walls but there is a difference between a little push and being pushed down. At the same time cutting off lines of communications between key players is something I still can avoid. I’ve always tried to avoid conflicts but if I tell the individual where my line is too be crossed then I must realize they are the one who has put a brick in my wall instead of me.