Why does a person speak to another? I believe it’s for 2 reasons one to gain another’s perspective or to have another validate their thoughts in someway. We don’t usually speak when we around company that we believe will insult us for such words that come out of our lips. Which is another reason I miss my mom who actually listened to what I said before she made her conclusion as she saw them in a cup that at least had some water in it rather then one which was dry before I even opened my mouth.