When a loved one leaves us it leaves a hole that can be filled but maybe patched along the way. For that person had a special role in our life which can’t be totally replaced but others can mend it to make smaller and more bearable to deal with.I’m sorry to say that many will have more holes in their lifespan and unless they are open to being patched by others those holes will only get bigger and bring them down before their time. We can never replace a loved one lost neither should we but at least we should open our hearts, minds and souls for the patches that will come along our journey.