Sometimes the best advise is “it sucks”. It might not sound like advise but allows you to let go of your emotions instead of hold them in. This is especially true when a loved one has passed away and “sorry” might help open a tear jerk but “it sucks” allows it to flow out. Sometimes life really does hold those to words and it feels great afterwards when someone else truly recognizes your pain. “It sucks” for the pain is real and it’s good to know someone knows how it truly feels.