I’ve done it by myself too many a time and would love the help instead. Of course the help would get me over the mountain but I would still decide to climb and which steps I want to take. I understand the satisfaction of doing it all by yourself but it goes away after this feeling is repeated over and over again with no applause except your own. Furthermore how many hours are spent doing it by yourself that could be spent in exploring or thinking about something else. It’s important to keep it real as well but realism doesn’t mean you have to pick up every scrap along the way. Help will allow me to expand my horizon’s and walk in many different directions instead of the one I continue to push through day in and day out.