You think he’s unrealistic but I say it’s just the amount. For you live as if tomorrow is guaranteed while I strive as if it could be my last. Maybe you believe that all will be forgotten but I live to keep a legacy. So nobody is truly realistic it’s just some accept the reality of today vs those who will accept it tommorrow. Eventually unless the scales have changed (G-D willing) we all will have to carry the same burden so why not try to lift today?