It is if one is afraid to see reality because it’s in the wrong color. It’s obvious for anyone else who is truly looking that you and your loved one’s are doing better but your eye’s and heart have been bounded. Acknowledging such a truth will throw your whole world off balance so you suffer with the blindfold on and nearily pray for a disaster just to prove them wrong. Isn’t it best to see what you might have been missing for hate is something that robs you of the truth and happiness that all should see instead.