There are few times in one’s life where both sides are equally wrong for usually the pendulum swings more in either direction but that didn’t occur during my “break period” yesterday. For looking back I should have locked the door but she also should have done the knocking before entering my private domain. No judge could have found either side more guilty and we both had a right to scream at each other. The other solution therefore is to make sure we both change a bit otherwise the verdict and one’s embarrassment will clearly be on the person’s side.